mASF post by "parker011"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, July 7, 2005

On 7/25/05 12:31:00 PM, ox wrote:
>hi parker
>
>great fr bro. very
>detailed....
>
>i have a lot of practice with
>the "grab my ass opener". it
>didnt seem to work well with
>that girl. the way i do it is
>with tongue in cheek and it
>works 99 percent of the time.
>i say "well, i really liked
>it". "are you that desperate,
>look, i got some friends i can
>introduce you to"...playfully
>and with tongue incheek. it
>works.
>
>i see that you open with neg.
>i dont do that anymore. it
>comes accross as insulting and
>usually ends up with ejection.
>i deliver negs, later in the
>convo.
>
>"handshake" routine is great
>to jump into rapport convo.
>
>i like how you open multiple
>sets. still ejected too soon i
>guess, imho. it is difficult
>to judge only by the fr.
>
>great job. your game is up. i
>can see that. dont worry about
>lack of practice. it is easier
>to up it where it was before.
>
>peace,
>ox


I will definitely be experimenting with the You Grabbed My Ass routine. I have
used it before. I think with a 9+, acting offended is the way to go. It makes
a good complement to a previous DHV, to send you through the roof. But I think
with other HBs, it can be done playfully. I will be using it more frequently
and experimenting.

With respect to opening with a neg, I have got to say, it has worked in the
past and it even kind of worked in this FR. With a SHB it is how you stand
out. (I would not open with a neg on a girl below a 9.) It is one of the
basics IMO. My first neg is hard, then my second neg is soft.

But I think you have to tailor each approach to the situation, your
positioning, the girl, the music, etc. Whatever is comfortable for you is
best.

Parker.