There are a number of books and courses out there that are in the business
of teaching you “Natural Game»”, where pickup is not based on lines,
routines, or memorization. Most miss the mark and still end up teaching you
things to memorize, lines and routines to follow, etc. The Attraction
Code by Vin DiCarlo attempts to take you beyond that by working to
teach not simply how to “act” like a natural, but how to think like a
natural, throwing out all concepts of lines and routines. And it does that
very well.
The
Attraction Code is broken down into only 4 chapters, but spans over 260
pages, and comes with a number of supplementary features. And it fills these
pages with tons of information. The first two chapters focus primarily on
the history of attraction, giving you a background to help you understand
the basis for the course. And to understand
The Attraction
Code, one has to understand the history of the human animal, getting
insight into things like social status and dominance, and appreciate our
evolution (and lack of evolution in some areas). All of these things have
some hand in the design of the Code.
The third chapter focuses primarily on the female of the human equation.
To fully appreciate
the course,
you need a full understanding of how women think, but not simply at the
superficial things brought on by society, but at their core level. There is
a good deal of discussion on things like compliance and frames, with a great
amount of focus on tests, and how best to “pass” them. Again, no lines, no
routines, simply what these tests are for and why they’re being asked so you
have a better chance to get beyond them.
Spread out through the first three chapters are boxes of information
labeled “Attraction Code Clues”, essentially summarizing things we have just
learned in that particular section, helping us build the code ourselves
before the “big reveal” in the final chapter.
The fourth and final chapter brings us to the much awaited Attraction
Code. Taking all
The Attraction
Code Clues we’ve gathered to this point, it merges them into a cohesive
bond. Without my revealing too much, one thing to note is that The Code is
not simply designed to help you in becoming a Natural» at pickup, but also
will help in all aspects of your life. Understanding and applying it will
help you with everything you do.
A unique feature of
this course is a side story about an average guy named Patrick who starts off as what is
popularly termed an AFC, and through his own actions and discoveries, learns
about The
Attraction Code and becomes what others would term a natural. It’s a
very nice touch, even going so far as to use a typewriter font to give the
appearance of a typewritten journal of sorts. We get inside Patrick’s head,
and we’re given deeper insight into what he’s thinking and “the reality of
things” with commentary by the author. It strikes a chord, and does give a
certain amount of connection with what we’re learning through the reading of
this book (in a sense, what Patrick is thinking is what goes through all our heads).
A couple of added Appendices complete
the book.
“The Hard-Core Science Behind Attraction” gives you a scientific background
for the Code and “Relationship of I-LoC to Dominance” follows a study
conducted in the 60’s and 70’s, both helping to reinforce the science behind
The Attraction
Code.
Another nice touch that is applied to
this book is the overall formatting. Most e-books tend to be formatted like a
traditional book, specifically formatted in portrait mode (the page is
taller than it is wide).
The Attraction
Code is formatted in landscape mode (wider than it is tall) so that it
is easier to read on a computer monitor screen. This makes
the book very readable, since e-books are generally read on computers (and not
printed out before reading).
Overall, this book is designed to help you change your mode of thinking.
Meant to help you step outside yourself and, in a sense, naturally become a
natural». You won’t find any routines, techniques, or pick-up lines in this
book. It also goes so far as to be clear in stating that it’s not about
teaching you “Inner Game”, but meant to get you out there picking up women.
It’s a different animal amongst the rest of the pickup books out there, and
will compliment anything you may have already learned in the past or want to
learn in the future.
It’s also good to note the bonuses that come along with this book (all
part of the DiCarlo Diclassified series). You get the “DiCarlo Escalation
Ladder” (2nd Edition), “No Flakes!”, “Objection Game”, and “Secrets of
Sexual Tension”. With these, you add an additional 85 pages of solid
information. These have all been formatted to match the look and feel of
The Attraction
Code (although, sadly, not matching the page formatting, sticking to the
standard portrait page format common for e-books). None of these are
required reading to fully understand
the course,
but they are best used along with this book to get the most of your
knowledge (and are referenced in a few places in throughout
the course).
I want to endorse Vin DiCarlo here as one of the most skilled and
innovative guys in the game. We have met and winged together, and I have
seen some of his beautiful girlfriends in person, so I can vouch for his
results firsthand, he is the real deal.
While I have not yet read the full book, I saw Vin speak to an audience
of over 300 men about the concepts taught in The Attraction
Code, and he got thunderous applause because what he was teaching
were really new and cutting edge (even I was taking furious notes in my
journal). But Jack already covered some of these above.
So instead, I want to say that the bonuses you get with this book are
worth more than you pay. In fact, the “DiCarlo Escalation Ladder” alone is
in my opinion worth double or triple what you pay for the book. It is one of
the most overlooked subjects in the game, but the idea of perfect sequencing
to ensure sex is something I have been long aware of and have practiced
myself. Vin is the first guy out there to put his ideas on the subject into
print, and it’s absolutely ground breaking stuff.
If you ever got all hot and steamy with a girl to the point you thought
sex was a sure thing, but instead somehow it never happened, and then all
your tries to get to that point again were useless and you wound up never
having sex with the girl, you absolutely must read what Vin has to say in
the “DiCarlo Escalation Ladder” bonus book.
Vin might have done better to call his book “The Cure for Blue Balls”
since the key to not having blue balls in the first place is of course to
escalate to sex. So while nothing is 100%,
get your copy
of Vin’s books and let this bonus save you from at least a few future
bouts of blue balls while you are at it!