mASF post by "CDJ"
posted on: mASF forum: Tactics / Techniques Discussion, May 5, 2003OK, it makes sense.
So, It seems to me that we need to diferentiate the attraction methods in
the Model. Because now we have (I'll call them this way for now):
'Male Attraction Generators' and 'Female Attraction Generators'. The 'Male
Attraction Generators' are Teasing Negs, C&F, value demonstrations, etc...
This way we generate attraction.
And the 'Female Attraction Generators' are 'patterns', 'questions' or
conversation themes that INDUCE in the girl the need to qualify herself (The
X phase). So she thinks that she ATTRACTED US. She'll feel that YOU like her
because she fits your standars. She thinks that she has to WORK to get you
to like her. And we can induce this phase with, for example, the Juggler
Girlfriend Test, or qualifying questions like 'Do you know how to cook?',
'Are you spontaneus?',etc.. and make her BELIVE that you like her because
she is a 'spontaneus person', a 'chef' or whatever. In fact you can
previouslly find out or guess what personality/abilities/values this girl
seems to have, and ask about them. If you guess (by her body language, voice
tone, etc..) that she is a shy person, you ask: 'Are you a shy?, because i
only hang out with shy girls...' and she will thell you that she is and give
you reasons. I think this is really smooth, and I have used it in the past
in the QUALIFY PHASE.
I remember once i met this HB9.6 model. And after using some 'Male
Attraction Generators' (ATTRACTION phase) I told her: 'My ideal GF have to
be a singer. I don't know why I'm attracted to girls with a beautifull
voice' She said 'I love singing, but...(X reason)' . Hey, but You look like
a singer!. Sing something for me!' and she sang two songs. I told her with a
serious tone: 'WOW, I loved that!. I never tought you have that voice!,
amazing!... etc...' and she was DDB.
So we're talking about 2 poles. The one in wich YOU feel that you attracted
her and the one in wich SHE feels that she attracted you.
So there's BALANCE between the two you.
And RAPPORT will flow naturally.
Mystery, this is how I understand your idea.
In fact, right now I'm remembering my sucessful past seductions, and most of
them always involved a PHASE (The X phase - 'The Female Attraction
Generator' Phase, or 'whatever name you suggest')in wich the girl felt she
attracted ME with her qualities, abilities, values, etc...
dude, I think your concepts are GOLD.
This is how I understand them.
Am I far/close?
CDJ.
Colombia, SA
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see where Im coming from? all the stuff we know about ATTRACTION can now be
applied to X phase.
any naming conventions you suggest for this phase in MM?
Mystery
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