mASF post by "PlayerSupreme"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, April 4, 2005Chapter 1. Why the internet?
I used to believe that internet dating was for chickens, who were too scared to
go out and meet people face to face. Ugly cowardly people. Now I know better.
The internet is actually becoming one of the largest singles bars of the
2000’s. With a multitude of benefits.
How many rejections do you need to experience to meet 100 women or even 1000
women? How long would this take for the average dater? How about years. But
with the internet you can achieve this in a matter of days. You can actually
meet 100 women in less than an hour and over 1000 over the course of one
weekend.
I’ve met and bedded women within 2 days of our first contact over the internet.
Millions of people are now using the internet as a viable option to their
dating experiences. With an estimated over 40 million Americans participating
in online dating sites and that number doubles when you go outside of our
country, I’m sure you all can see the value of putting up an online “ad”.
Here are some more facts and figures for the number crunchers reading:
· According to People magazine’s 2003 poll of people between the ages of 18 and
44 12% of the women in the 1,400 men and women polled used online dating, with
men amounting to 16% admitting to using online dating.
· If you know people, they will rarely admit to anything so I’m sure this
number would be much higher, especially when you take into account that over 40
million are openly using online dating.
· A new study of online dating site members has found that when couples who had
built up a significant relationship by e-mailing or chatting online met for the
first time, 94 per cent went on to see each other again.
But is the internet a viable means to find real love. Read these facts of a
recent research by a Dr. Gavin at the university of Bath, and determine for
yourself:
· • 94 per cent of those surveyed saw their ‘e-partner’ again after first
meeting them, and the relationships lasted for an average of at least seven
months, with 18 per cent of them lasting over a year.
· • men online were significantly more likely to be committed to the
relationship than women and were more dependent on their ‘e-partner’.
· • the more the couple engaged in simultaneous online chat before meeting
rather than simply e-mailing one another, the more they were found to depend on
one another emotionally and the more they understood one another.
· • the more the couple talked on the telephone before they met, the deeper the
relationship.
· “Given that the most successful relationships lasted at least seven months,
and in some case over a year, it seems that these relationships have a similar
level of success as ones formed in more conventional ways.
· Of the relationships, 39 per cent were still going on at the time of the
survey, and of these 24 per cent had been going for at least a year, and eight
per cent for at least two years. Of the relationships that had already ended at
the time of the survey, 14 per cent had lasted over a year, and four per cent
had lasted over two years.
· “This study shows that online dating can work for many people, leading to a
successful meeting for almost everyone we surveyed,” said Dr Gavin.
Now consider this, 7 days a week, 24 hours a day you have the potential to meet
hundreds and even thousands of women who might be just what your looking for
for as low as 55 cents a day! Less than the cost of a steak dinner for two and
you can have your dance card filled with beautiful and available women!
With the night club scene representing countless rejections for us men, you
might want to expand your options. I’m not saying give up “sarging”, cause
that is cowardly to me. I believe in using all means that are available to
meet a female of good quality and that will make a good match for me.
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