mASF post by "thrillseeker"
posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, August 8, 2005On 8/1/05 10:49:00 PM, JohnnyC69 wrote:
>Sup Thrill,
>
>You had a few bad turns, but
>you still had a good night.
>Congratulations, you are
>getting it.
>
>I'm reading about your AFC
>friend and my heart goes out
>to you for having to deal with
>that. But you didn't let him
>ruin you so good on ya.
Thanks man. He did ruin me the next night. But I will never hang with him
ever again. Problem solved.
>Dig your technique for looking
>at people, gonna have to try
>that one.
It's good shit. The excercise as we did it in the class was: You look at the
other person, and verbally state whatever you notice. It can be a simple
observation: "Your eye twitched." Or it can even be an inference. "You're
getting pissed off." It just has to be a "you" statement.
Then you switch, then you both go at once. It's neat, cause it sometimes turns
into a kind of showdown, to see who keeps cool, and who gets the other person
to be self-conscious.
I've found it really helpful cause it puts me in a state of mind where I'm
focused OUTWARD. Where I have zero self-consciousness, because _I_ am the
judge. _I_ am the subject, THEY are the object, the one under scrutiny. My BL
naturally slows down and becomes more confident when I do this. Try it out.
>
>Quick question: what's
>synthetic one-itis?
>Peace,
>JohnnyC
Jlaix talks about when he gets into deep rapport with a chick, he genuinely
feels like he's in love with her. Then it usually wears off after he fucks her
once or twice.
When I'm really hitting it off with a girl, sometimes I won't even want to do
other sets, cause I actually feel like I'm falling for my target.
Girls are my anti-drug.
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