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posted on: mASF forum: Field Reports Discussion, July 7, 2005I had my day 3 with Hbnotsalsa. She had refused my offer to go to salsa
lessons and instead said she would cook me dinner. So I drove over to her
place with a bottle of wine. At first I felt confident but then I began to
feel extreme self doubts. Clearly I had changed my plans to suit her and now
she was holding the cards. The old AFC was creeping in.
When I arrived she told me that she in fact did not make dinner and instead
wanted to order out. So I went into her apartment and looked through menus on
her couch while she watched CNN. She said that she did not have wine glasses
nor a corkscrew and she did not have a DVD player. Basically it was just the
tv playing terrorist tracking shows and a stack of menus. I sat on the end of
the couch flipping through menus while she sat on the opposite side watching
tv. The old AFC was taking over.
I felt whatever little vibe we had slipping away; in an effort to extricate
myself from the stale scene I suggested we go out to eat. She agreed (of
course, in retrospect). We ate sushi and had cliché small talk. I tried a
number of patterns to ramp up her state. Seemed to work okay, but she kept
switching back to rational mode and I was having a difficult time maintaining a
sexual vibe. The check for $50 came to the table, and I paid the bill. She
offered to pay a few dollars but by this time the old AFC had conquered. I
sheepishly declined and paid the whole bill.
As we waled back to her place, Hbnotsalsa stated, “We’re not hooking up”.
I did some c and f and accused her of being a predator. She laughed. We went
back to her apartment, sat on the couch and flipped on the tv. We sat on the
couch and made out. Every time I tried to move in, she pushed my hand away
saying, “I am not like that.”
I finally gave in. The old AFC had beaten the new me to a pulp. Now I have to
look back at my game and figure out how to beat him next time.
Here are my plans for next time:
-get a different girl
-have her come to my house for me to cook her dinner instead of the opposite,
tell her to bring something (a vegetable, wine, etc)
-have a sexual vibe – candles, wine, jazz, etc.
-be firm about what I will and will not accept
-Introduce the Riker’s 3 Rules
-present more of a challenge to her, instead of trying to grope her
-stick to initial offer (ex: salsa lessons); don’t compromise so easily
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