mASF post by "Positively Male"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, June 6, 2002On 6/25/02 1:15:00 PM, gunwitch wrote:
(snip)
>THATS the biggest fallacy of
>ASF, "their minds work
>different", WOMEN say they do
>(may as well go along with
>everybody), SOCIETY says they
>do(dont wanna make ugly guys
>feel bad, women have to be
>special in SOME way) ,
>seduction gurus say they do
>(cant sell simplicity). They
>are just like us though.
Gunwitch, I have a few questions and observations, about your recent posts.
How did you feel about yourself, when (before you started working out, losing
weight, etc.) you called yourself (correct me if I am not right) "short, bald,
fat and ugly"?
I have no doubt that the game is easier for you now. I do wonder, though, was
it the women who decided you now look good, or YOU? Obviously, your self-image
has changed radically. Probably both are true, but how much of your confidence
came from looking in the mirror, and better liking who YOU saw, as opposed to
seeing yourself as "short, bald, fat and ugly"?
When you were getting women before, did you somehow feel that you did not
"deserve" them? Is this also what you imply now, about men that you would not
call handsome? I might have missed something in another post, so I'll also ask:
Do you make differentiation between things you can change (like, weight,
clothing, hygiene) and things you cannot (like, a misshaped nose, or other
things one could be born with)?
At this point, I am waiting for the post (unless I've already missed it) where
you will say, "100%!! It's **100%** LOOKS!!" This concerns me in the sense of
some of your recent posts maybe being yet another discouragement (which we
DON'T need) to a good number of men who might feel, "I've been told that I am
ugly, so why try?"
By the way, I am not selling anything to anyone, nor have I bought anything, so
I have no financial interest in anything here. I just want to get at the truth
- what works, what can be changed, and what cannot. Also, just because someone
is selling something, does not mean that it does not work.
I don't think you are a "troll" at all. I think a troll is someone who just
posts something to get a reaction. It is clear to me that you truly believe
what you say.
You have posted some useful things, and I in no way want to take away from
that. I think you do seek the truth.
One last question: Would you REALLY beg for sex, if you "had to"... ?
|
