mASF post by "Spanish Mackerel"
posted on: USENet: alt.seduction.fast newsgroup, October 10, 2001"Michael S." wrote:
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> I think the most powerfull aspect of your new frame of mind is NOT caring
> what she thinks about YOU ! I see SO many guys sabotage their efforts by
> probing for feedback concerning what the chick thinks about them or if she
> likes them or not.
This is coming from a position of weakness. Unfortunately, most NLP
types fall into this category spending their time overly looking for
responses. I think it's a load of crap.
Having said that, I do have a tremendous amount of respect for Richard
Bandler and Milton Erickson, especially in the areas of Time
Distortion. Do you really understand the SECRETS of time? :)
> What she thinks about you NOW is NOT relevant to what
> she might do in the future. If you play your cards right, she can HATE you
> from the start and it won't make any difference. A chick can sense if you
> are anal about what she thinks about you. NOT caring what a chick (or
> anyone) thinks about YOU is one of the most seductive things one can do.
I think this is a good frame. Thinking or concentrating on treating a
woman with niceness in each interaction is idiotic, as some "seduction
masters" might teach.
> It
> conveys pure STRENGTH.
As long as you don't let it get to your head. :) There is SOME
consideration in each interaction for the woman you are talking with.
There needs to be MORE consideration FOR YOU. YES.
> Only an emotional weakling is anal about what
> others think of them.
Some people come to mind.
>
> NOT caring what she thinks about YOU is a superior position of strength
> and RESPECT. THIS alone will end a multitude of "Shit Testing".
Yes.
>
> Being SUPERIOR is one of the keys to ending shit-testing. Do you think
> Brad Pitt would get shit-tested initially by the HB10 in your local club???
> NO, because she considers him to be superior to her.
This is a way to ESTABLISH yourself as an authority in her world. As
long as it is not done in a condescending way, not usually anyway.
> Now if they
> sustained a relationship and she gained confidence, THEN she would begin to
> shit-test him. Unless he knew how to deal with it.
>
>
> As for not caring what they think about ANYTHING, I think this is going a
> bit overboard, but I think you will find a happy medium with practice.
> Even GM cared if they were becoming offended because he would always follow
> it up with "Just Kidding". In other words, you still have to be in tune
> with how they are reacting.
>
Well said.
> So, in closing, I think your "Herder" mentality is MORE than valid.
> Herders all us tools, like dogs, horses, cross-fencing, squeeze-shoots,
> hot-shots, buckets of grain, etc. So all you have to do is choose the
> tools that work best for you and refine them through practice. GM uses sex
> jokes and persistence to herd his females. Mr. Smooth uses fun, commands,
> and physical games with his wing. Maybe Final Identity will come up with
> something totally original or a combination of various tools?
>
> Who says that you can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink?
> You just make them THIRSTY beforehand.
>
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Laife
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