mASF post by "finalD"
posted on: mASF forum: Playettes Discussion, March 3, 2005Hitori wrote at Wed, 23 Mar 2005 04:56:00 GMT in
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> I dress down like it's my job.
> Most of the time I wear little or no makeup, unremarkable
> jeans, casual outfits. For everyday life I do very little
> with my hair. I prefer All-Stars to heels.
> I could look better, and I don't.
> Why?
> My looks are such that even at the 'casual' level men find
> me attractive and I can get play if I want to; I am above
> the practical baseline of 'I would do her'.
> The closer I get to my personal point of maximum hotness -
> the glass ceiling of hot? - the stranger and more lame men
> tend to act.
True, I agree. The operative principle here, in this example, is
that you are ALREADY "above the practical baseline."
If you are not? Can you suggest good "game" for Rosie O'Donnel
by which she will likely get a supportive, mutually fulfilling
relationship with Tom Cruise? Will it happen? Unlikely.
For me, that's 80% of the partnerable women I know -- as
unattractive as Rosie, or worse. Really. We live in an obese
society, and Rosie has professional makeup artists to help her
out.
I'm sorry that I'm built this way. If the only useful advice
that comes from my inherent biological makeup is, "be more
visually attractive," whaddayagonnado, TURN ME INTO SOMETHING
I'M NOT? I don't think so. So, it's useless advice. It's still a
fact. So, most women can't do it. It's still EXACTLY what I'm
built to be. So, it's annoying because it somehow smashes self
esteem to smithereens. Nevertheless, IT IS A FACT that WHAT IS
IN AN ADULT HETEROSEXUAL HUMAN MALE'S HEAD is EXACTLY AND
PRECISELY that he wants VISUALLY APPEALING FEMALES.
If you don't like it, unfortunately, you can't fix it. Most men
want to "fix" the fact that women can't be argued and reasoned
into sex. Most men want to "fix" the fact that the women they
desire somehow take their expression of that desire and turn it
against the men, by understanding that "because" he wants her so
much, he must not be worth having; or at least, that "because"
he has expressed his desire, she therefore has everything she
wanted (reassurance of her desirability) and therefore she is
free to find other conquests. (Heck, men are the same about that
situation -- people who are too available aren't necessarily as
interesting as people whom we have to "earn".) We want to "fix"
all sorts of things about human relations.
But we can't. MASF preaches reality. Reality is, HETEROSEXUAL
ADULT HUMAN MALES require VISUALLY APPEALING PARTNERS. Period.
End of story. It won't go away. It doesn't damage self-esteem.
It isn't a neg-hit. It has nothing to do with your pride. It is
simple reality.
--
The surest way to corrupt a youth is to instruct him to hold in
higher esteem those who think alike than those who think
differently.
Friedrich Nietzsche
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