Use personal experience or fantasy stories to get her horny. ASF: "Never use
stories DIRECTLY INVOLVING the girl you're with. QUOTE about what you did to other chicks
or what you want to do to other chicks or ask her about what she has done or would like to
do with other guys. You can use this even in every-day discussions by elaborating at the
right time and in the right direction:) A variation: get her in a private place, and feed
her with fantasies, increasingly sexual, in a hypnotic way, until she can't stand it
anymore and will rape you:)" A journalist discussing SS, Playboy, July'98: "I
had a friend in college whose success with women was mind-boggling, given his Napoleonic
stature and receding hairline. I remember my college friend playfully turning every
conversation with a girl, no matter where she would try to steer it, into something with
sexual undertones. He'd get her thinking about sex, and pretty soon she was thinking about
having sex with him." Remember that steering the conversation into something with
sexual undertones doesn't even necessarily have to mean talking explicitly about sex, see
"The Discovery Channel pattern" for an example of this. Talking about something
innocent but inserting the words "penetrate", "come inside",
"hard", "surrender" into the conversation might do the trick just as
well. Whether to use covert (SS and patterns) or overt (GM style) conversation is not
always easy to decide, the best advice I can give concerning this is just to experiment
and "develop an intuition":)
An example of a combination of a cold approach, quoting, stacking realities and using
fantasy stories. ASF: ""I know this guy named Vincent, he was telling me about a
woman friend of his. She said that she was standing by herself in a bar one time when this
guy walks up to her, looks her dead in the eyes and said, "I would like to fuck you.
Would you like to fuck me?" and then just stands there. She said she nearly dropped
her drink, but then she started thinking about it and began feeling that heat building up
in her body. You know how you feel when you start to get really aroused? All wet and
excited? She didn't miss a beat and started playing right back at him. She said, "I'd
want you to go down on me first..."
Anyway use your exquisite language skills to tell her exactly what you'd like to do to
her & have Vincent's friend tell it to her. I mean it's not like *YOU'RE* telling her
you want to eat her out & fuck her brains loose or anything:)"
An example of a line to use in a conversation. "When was the last time you had an
orgasm? I really think you need to find a guy right now... and let him bend you over the
bathroom sink and let him have his way with you."
(Taken from "Sweep women off their feet...":) "Most women love the
romantic and emotional stuff, while others are not necessarily interested in a
relationship of any kind but would really enjoy a good session of hot and wild session of
unforgettable sex, no strings attached.
So how do you begin to talk about that kind of low down and dirty sex? Well, if you see
that she doesn't respond to relationship type conversation, move away from it. Offer a
different perspective. You can either describe other couples that you know that are not
communicating like they should and how much of a hassle it can be to be in a loveless
relationship and so on.
So what's the alternative? It doesn't have to be your own opinion but you can mention
how much of a hassle free a purely sexual experience can be between two horny people. They
can share all their fantasies without fear of being judged by a loved one and threatened
with a break-up, they are free to experience many things that might be viewed as taboo by
people in a serious relationship etc. You can talk about how easy it is to arrange
something and see it through when it comes to nothing but physical pleasure. You can say
how both men and women can experiment with their sexual urges and curiousities without any
relationship insecurities or jealousy. You can give examples of other couples that you
know where the woman always fantasized about being with another woman but the husband was
scared that she might leave him for a lesbian. In a purely physical relationship, it's all
about what makes us feel good, it's all about exploring fantasies and feeling comfortable
with who we are as we are.
If you've hit the target, she will agree with you and feel a connection between the two
of you because she will feel you are both the same. At that point you can ask her about
her favorite position or her favourite fantasies that she was never able to talk about or
act on in a closed and conventional relationship. You can tell her about some mild
fantasies of yours and direct the conversation to how wonderful it feels to be able to
express yourselves in this way. You can even mention how talking about this kind of stuff
is making you hot right there and then probe to see if she feels the same way. You can
joke about the two of you trying to seduce another person together for a possible
threesome and more depending on the fantasies she already told you about. If everything
clicks you will know because if you don't go for the close, she will."
See also The Ideal Guy routine for a similar approach
and GM technique explained for more details on
overt sexual talk.