How to approach and introduce patterns into a discussion <<< >>> Disclaimer: Part of the contents/ideas appearing in this section of the Player Guide have been referenced or partially repurposed from Ross Jeffries' Speed Seduction® Web Site (free newsletters), courseware products, or seminar recordings. If you find the materials in this section useful, you may want to consider looking into Ross' products, available for purchase from the Official Speed Seduction® Web Site. Obviously you just cannot sit down in front of or beside a girl you're not acquainted with and start with a pattern ready to plant anchors, listen to trance words etc. Here's where the skill of fluff talk comes to play. If you're witty, creative, observant or anything in that direction, you can use the casual "we know each other from before" approach and just start talking about the event you both just witnessed, something "new" you just noticed about her (never mind that she's "all new" to you anyway:), ask for her opinion about something, a new piece of clothing of yours etc. Just about anything goes as long as it doesn't look like an approach and a pick-up attempt - an impression which should initially be avoided at all costs. When things are going well, you can turn your interaction into a pick-up, but with more experience you can even have her do the pick-up (meaning she offers her phone-number and asks yours, when you seem to be leaving:). But once you have the conversation going, keep in mind that the general direction you want the conversation to go is the one which let's you introduce a pattern, and then another, and then another:) 'Til she's dripping wet or goes unconscious from all the highs you are taking her:) A natural conversation hops from one thing to another and can be fulfilling if the subject being discussed is thrilling to both parties of the conversation. Pick your hops so as to move closer to being able to naturally introduce a pattern but be also very sensitive to the hops she takes and change you goals accordingly - choose another pattern to eventually end up with, modify the one you had in mind or in your final stage of mastery of SS: make up and deliver an appropriate one on the fly:) See also the on SS in the July'98 issue of Playboy. The article is a good example of how starting with patterns right at the outset is a doomed approach, they just sound too lame and embarrassing. But the one time the journalist does it right, starts with some fluff talk, has the "actually we know each other" attitude, comments on something which has some sort of understandable meaning for the girl and only THEN delivers a pattern he made up on the fly about it and - BOOM, it works! See also: Fluff talk Article in Playboy

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Fast Seduction 101 Player Guide Board Player Guide Topic Discussions   Register | Profile | Log-in | Lost Password | Active Users | Help | Search » Welcome Guest: log in | Register     Fast Seduction 101 Player Guide Board     The Patterns Mark all forum posts as read   [ help ] » Welcome to The Patterns « Single Page for this forum Forum moderated by: webmaster Topic Info Last Post Need help with patterns please! 6 replies, viewed 10381 times Started by: MVP Oct. 11, 2007 - 8:24am by: Grikes musical performance pattern   »my first pattern... this stuff is fun! 0 replies, viewed 3297 times Started by: violinguy April 9, 2007 - 10:34pm by: violinguy Suggestive Words/Phrases 0 replies, viewed 6358 times Started by: violinguy April 9, 2007 - 12:18am by: violinguy modifying the rose pattern   »think of adding in a little extra 1 replies, viewed 6230 times Started by: timeforacatnap Sep. 25, 2006 - 6:10am by: Lukeyboy8 "Point To Self" sounds so ridiculous.   »What exactly does it accomplish? 4 replies, viewed 8934 times Started by: Hysteria Sep. 20, 2006 - 1:54am by: Lukeyboy8 Are there patterns for reducing attraction? 5 replies, viewed 4895 times Started by: anamchara Sep. 18, 2006 - 2:59am by: Lukeyboy8 The Discovery Pattern  [ Pages  1 2 ]   »The Discovery Pattern 12 replies, viewed 18301 times Started by: rtharp Aug. 5, 2006 - 3:37am by: FUBAR Door Pattern   »....wow.... 1 replies, viewed 7072 times Started by: PIMPERATION Aug. 4, 2006 - 3:50pm by: FUBAR Door Pattern   »....wow.... 0 replies, viewed 3309 times Started by: PIMPERATION July 2, 2006 - 1:54pm by: PIMPERATION rose pattern update   »i've done it! 1 replies, viewed 6696 times Started by: timeforacatnap June 13, 2006 - 1:24am by: riverspecialist Single Page for this forum Forum Jump --   The Basic Rules Be the Alpha/Dominant male Do my looks matter? Good traits to have It all comes down to satisfaction Look and feel your best Nice guys vs jerks Should you express or contain your sexual desires? The 3 seconds rule The rules with your wingman Wanna play the dating game? Women want good sex --   How to Get Started At a party Casual meetings vs pick-ups Experiment! Fluff talk How to initiate a conversation Just say "Hi" Kinesthetics Mirroring On confidence Reading body language Talk to girls Talking to her = echoing her The "don't"s of fluff talk --   Approaching Women And Getting Them Interested "GM" Style "Neg Hits" Approaches Club/dancing Demonstrate value and personality Eliciting Values General guidelines on approaching Gimmicks Group Techniques If she seems unapproachable More Patterning Skills Pace and lead Patterning Remote Seduction Sex Talk The Patterns The importance of a first impression Where to meet girls --   You've Got Her Interested...Now What? Asking for a... date? Building a bridge AFC-style Capitalise Closing Common signs of interest If more than one girl is interested in you If she has second-thoughts Inviting the girl over to your place Making a timely exit My home is my love-nest Networking and pivots Our World routine Proceeding instead of closing Reading the signs of a "committed" woman --   How to Handle Girls Act like its special Be busy Cook for her and "date" at home Have and reveal secrets If she compliments you Judge her by her actions, not by her words Managing many relationships at once Paying her a compliment Put a price on yourself Romantic gifts and things to do Show a willingness to walk away Suggest competition Use her friends Use poetry When should you call a woman after having sex with her? --   Troubleshooting "Have you ever...?" gets busted But I really want this girl! Dealing with rejection Ejecting If she asks "Are you trying to seduce me?" If she asks for YOUR number instead If she cancels a date If she doesn't return your phone-calls/e-mails If she says "Let's just be friends" If she says "Why do you ask?" If she shows disrespect for you If she still refuses to give you her number Nothing works with the girl The age difference problem --   The Boyfriend Problem Dealing with boyfriend issues --   Micellaneous A game of Crash and Burn Bad jokes Fun and games Miscellaneous suggestions and observations about seduction More things to do for fun Top colognes Forum Options: Prune Forum Locked topic, no new replies accepted Open topic